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History > The Story of William Dunford
by Ruth Nelson Baker
William Dunford
was born January 17, 1847 in Trowbridge, Wiltshire England, the
eldest son of Isaac and Leah Bailey Dunford. An older sister,
Mary had been born on January 4, 1846. During this time,
missionaries from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints
taught them the gospel message and on August 3, 1848, Isaac was
baptized. Leah, who was pregnant at the time, waited until after
the birth of little Amelia (born September 14, 1848) and was then
baptized on November 15.
The following April, two-year-old
Mary died and five months later on September 30, so did baby
Amelia. William was joined by a brother, Alma on August 19, 1850,
and a sister, Savina on July 9, 1852. Savina lived only six
months.
Wanting to join the Saints in
America, Isaac and Leah with their two young sons left England in
November, 1853. During their six week voyage, a daughter,
Seaborn, joined their family. After reaching New Orleans, they
traveled by river steamer to St. Louis. It was on this trip that
little Seaborn died and was buried on the banks of the
Mississippi River.
For the next two years, they lived
in St. Louis where another son, Moroni, was born on June 8, 1855.
In the spring of 1856, Isaac, Leah, nine-year-old William,
five-year-old Alma, and baby Moroni joined the John Banks Company
and went by ox team to Salt Lake City. There they stayed only
until the next spring when for unknown reasons they returned to
St. Louis where they remained for the next seven years.
During these years, four more
children joined the family: Albert Bailey, born November 19,
1857; Eliza Ann, born September 26, 1859; Parley Edwin, born
October 5, 1861; and Oliver Cowdrey, born October 12, 1863.
William attended school in St.
Louis as did his younger brothers, Alma, Moroni, and Albert.
Moroni tells in his journal about these years as seen through his
eyes. It is certain that William also experienced many similar
things. (See Moroni's history for more detail of this time.) As
the oldest brother, William probably had much responsibility in
taking care of the others. He evidently was also a tease. Moroni
recalled a time in
...the summer of '63 went in
bathing a times or two in the river with my Brother William
on one occasion he taken me out where the water was over my
head & would let me go & then laugh at me....
In 1864, Isaac made preparations
to again take his family to the Salt Lake Valley. On June 18,
they moved to the steamboat, Kate Kinney, which was
to take them to Nebraska City, the outfitting place for groups
traveling west. On June 19, Moroni recorded that they,
...left the banks of the river
& the shores of St. Louis, our beautifull City, the place
of my birth was soon out of Sight, leaveing behind us our
Father & older Brother, on account of our boat leaving
sooner than was expected. All this day we all felt bad
wondering how they would overtake us. So bad did my Mother
feel that I Seen her cry. At the first landing place up the
river before we stoped, I seen my Father & Brother there
waiting for us....
A week later they reached Nebraska
City and within three days were in a wagon train heading to Great
Salt Lake City. William later wrote a letter to his Uncle Levi
Bailey detailing this trip. On April 13, 1865, he wrote:
I arrived in this City Sept.
20th. My parents arriving 5 days afterwards. I will now give
you a few items: We started from St. Louis, June 19th. had a
very nice trip up the river and arrived at Wyoming [Nebraska]
June 26th just 7 days after leaving St. Louis. staid at
Wyoming [Nebraska] 3 days & then started on our journey
for G.S.L. City.
we started with 28
wagons--with a bro: Chase as Captain. Father had 1 wagon with
4 oxen. I had charge of a bro: Hall's wagon he having 3. July
16th passed Fort Kearney. The day after 4 of our Company
turned back on account of the pursuasion of some dane
apostates which we met by crowds returning.
--July 23rd at Ofallons Bluff.
350 miles from Wyoming [Nebraska], Uncle george [George
Dunford] & his wagonmaster Nash could not agree.--(uncle
george had 7 wagons loaded with hats, caps, Sugar, Tea,
Coffee, Tobacco &c &c.)--Uncle said he would go no
further.--with such men & actions said he would pay them
off & let them go ahead & he would stay behind. Nash
& his men wanted provision--uncle refused when Nash
ordered his men to take them--uncle said he would shoot the
first man that did--Nash went for his revolver,-he--was kept
back when he got raving mad.--Cursed-swore-& called uncle
every but a gentleman.--rushed up to uncle for to take his
pistol from him when quite a scuffle ensued. they were
seperated however without any further damage.--finally they
came to an agreement--uncle paid them off & they were
divided among the Company
July 24th drove out and left
uncle and family. July 26th crossed the South Platt. had to
raise the wagons 6 in. & put 10 & 12 yoke of Cattle
on each wagon. Aug. 9th Passed Fort Larimie. Aug 14th 8 miles
this side of Horseshoe Creek Burgess cashed 2 wagon loads of
goods & left the wagons on account of loosing so many
Cattle by desease called the Bloody Murrian
Aug 17th at Deer Creek 100
miles west of Larimie 1 of fathers oxen died by the same
desease which was a great loss to him on account of being so
heavelly loaded Aug 18th 3 of our Company drove out and went
ahead Aug 24th father bought a cow to take place of his ox
that died Aug 31st 3 more of our Company turned out and went
ahead.--Sept 10th at green River the Captain, Hall, & a
dane drove out and went ahead & left the remaining 5
wagons viz: Burgess, 3, Dr. Newton, 1 Father 1.--I went ahead
with Hall--(I having --charge of his provision wagon)--he
saying that he would drive about 6 miles & then wait
until my Parents came up & that was the last I seen of
them until Sept 25th
we--(the Captain, Hall, Dane
man & I)--drove on an arrived in this City Sept 20th
after a journey of 93 days from St. Louis & 83 days from
Wyoming [Nebraska]. on arriving I met with a Bro: Henry W.
Naisbitt who would have me go to his house to live I went
& am living there still. My--Parents & the rest
arrived Sept 25th being 98 days from St. Louis & 88 day
from Wyoming,--They were all well & a very little the
worse for wear.
with him: until they could get
something better--so my parents went and lived with him.
About 30 head of cattle died of of the disease called the
bloody murrian out of our little Company. a boy got his arm
broke by being thrown of a horse, but thank God we had no
worse an accident.
William was 17 years old at this
time, old enough to help in earning money for the family. Perhaps
this is why when, in November the rest of his family left with
the James H. Hart and the James Nelson families to settle the
Bear Lake Valley in Idaho, he stayed in Salt Lake City. He must
have had some training in art or photography while in St. Louis,
for he wrote that "I went to work at my trade...for a bro.
E. R. Savage, the only gallery in the City.
Very little has been written about
William. He was divorced after a brief marriage. He died at the
age of only 44. Apparently afterwards, his two living daughters
had little if no contact with the rest of the Dunford family
resulting in almost no information being passed onto their
descendants. It is only through some 80 of his letters that his
history is written. But, these letters reveal much about
William's personality and the events of his life.
William was given the task to
write to Isaac and Leah's families and friends and tell them
about their trip west and their present circumstances. He wrote
to his Uncle George, "...and as they [Isaac and Leah]
authorized me to act as there Private Sectretary I take pleasure
in answering your letter." The letters would be signed,
"From your loving and affectionate Nephew--Wm. Dunford,
Private Secretary to I. & L. Dunford." He then would
send handwritten copies of these letters to his parents adding a
personal letter to them at the end.
William was to find life in the
City a hard one. Employment was difficult to come by and
difficult to keep. Most of the time it seems that he was
unemployed or "loafing" as he put it. In his first
letter to his parents after they arrived in Bloomington, Idaho,
he reported that he had been let go from Savage because "I
did not suit him & that was all he could say...." The
next week however when he happened to be in the gallery, Mr.
Savage offered him his job back because, "...the man that he
had in my place did not suit near as well as I did...Savage said
that he never seen finer work than what I made...." Four
months later on March 18, William was again let go by Mr. Savage,
this time for good.
It is certain William felt the
loss of being separated from his family. He wrote:
Please tell my brothers to
kiss my Dear little sister for me, & Eliza to kiss them
for me & Mother you kiss little Parley for me.
Tell Alma to practise writing
& to study as much as posible. I was very thankful for
that one letter he wrote & would be much more pleased if
I get some from him oftener.
My Dear Father why dont you
try you hand at writing what words you cant spell you can
make out in that dictionary I sent...Please not delay long in
writing.
In William's letters in April of
1865, we get an insight into the happenings not only in Great
Salt Lake City, but also in the country. He wrote concerning the
recent conference of the Church he had attended:
Prest. H.C. Kimball & the
apostles where the main speakers. Bro: C.C. Rich in his
sermon friday morning answered most every question the Saints
could ask him in relation to the Condition of the Saints at
Bear River Lake Valley [Bear Lake]. President H.C. Kimball
& others Counciled the saints to sustain home manufacure
& Counciled the Sisters to join in League & resolve
not to purchase of the stores and they would find that there
would be soon be a difference in the Prices, told them to try
& adopt home spun fashion.
They are going to do away with
these Whiskey Shops & gambling Halls. The President
advised the City Council to pass an ordinance requiring all
persons in their homes at 10 O.clock P.M. all those out after
that time to be arrested and give an account of themselves
& that would prevent so much street walking at all Hours
of the Night. They intend to have the New Tabernacle ready
for to Hold the fall Conference in...
On April 15, 1865 he wrote:
A Telegraphic Dispatch 5 O
Clock this morning stated that last night at Ford's Theatre a
man got into Prest: Lincoln's private box & shot him dead
& at the same time Secty: Seward (who got thrown out of
his Carraige a day or two ago & got his arm broken and
face Cut) was stabbed 4 times in the neck while lying in bed
& killed--There is quite a consternation about it all the
flags are at half mast...
Richmond is Captured &
Gen: Lee has surrenderd his whole army....
As were most of the Dunfords,
William must have also been a small man as he wrote also at this
time, "I enjoy splendid health. I weigh 119 1/2 lbs. being
again 7 1/2 lbs. since I have been in the Territory."
Soon after this, William visited
his family for the first time since their arrival in Bloomington.
Upon his return, in a letter dated May 30, 1865, he wrote his
Uncle George Dunford about the trip.
Starting Apr: 25th rode to
Ogden same day--next day walked to Box Elder. Apr: 27th
walked to Logan...spent the night with bro: Collins late of
St. Louis, had a splendid time, he having Some Daughters that
could sing like nighting-gales. Apr: 29th walked to
Franklin...April 30th Today we started about 1/2 past one
A.M. we had to travel from Cache Co. over the mountains to
Richland Co. a distance of 20 miles. Had to travel most
of the distance on snow shoes & arrived at my parents
house about 4 O clock Monday Morning May 1st having
traveled Steady for 26 1/2 hours.
I went up to the door &
rapped. Father said who is their. I said, your Son. The next
moment about 500 Brothers & Sisters more are less were
stringing onto me.--Well, I don't blame them they had not
seen me for over 6 months. Nevertheless it was a time of
great rejoicing.
...I found them all well, they
have had a very hard time having to grind wheat in a Coffee
mill about a week before I went up. Still I think it is all
for the best. father does also. Mother don't....
Upon his return to Salt Lake City,
William found that William Jennings needed him to work in his
store. He wrote to his parents,
...Wanted to know what I would
work for him for told him I would try it for $75.00 per
month. said he did not want to give over $50.00 per month,
told him that I could not possibley live for that. Then he
told me to call in the morning. I called he said he would
give me $60.00 per month. I told him rather than loaf, I
would except, so I am here behind the gold Scales or Cashiers
Desk....
In a letter to Uncle George he
explained his job further, "...he wanted me to Cashier for
him & By and Sell gold &c. &c. I like it first rate
have to handle any amount of gold, Silver &
greenbacks...."
This employment with Mr. Jennings
would only last a little over a year. During that time,
apparently his wages did not cover his expenses because he soon
gathered much debt. He also was trying to help his family in
Bloomington. He wrote on September 27, 1965:
I have made arrangements &
secured some Flour for you. I am to pay Seven (7) Dollars a
hundred in case you should need it, if it should be that you
should not need I am not obliged to take it. I hope you won't
need it, for I have about ($200.00) Two Hundred Dollars to
pay up, but I don't know how under the sun I am to do it....
What a lot of responsibility and
worry and probably homesickness 18-year-old William must have
felt.
He asked Isaac to take charge of
getting him the city lot next to his own in Bloomington. Brother
James Hart had told him he could have it along with some farming
land, the only charge being the surveyor's.
For when business gets brisk
and if Br. Jennings won't pay me better than what he is at
present, I shall come up there and assist you, the truth is
the way my services is rewarded at present-I never will be
able to Liquidate my board bill.
William was afraid of losing his
board with Brother Naisbett.
If such should be the case I
will be in a nice fix. I am sure I don't know what I shall
do. Nevertheless I shall try and do my best. As my last
resort, I shall fly to Bloomington for refuge.
His circumstances did not improve,
and in April of 1866 he wrote his parents that he would talk to
Charles C. Rich about sending two or three hundred pounds of
flour to them:
I can't do much more as I am
in debt to Mr. Jennings $57.00 besides other indebtedness. I
wish that I was getting decent wages So that I could assist
you more...I don't care if I run in debt to Mr.Jennings One
hundred so long as it will be benefiting you by so doing.
I remain your
affectionate and devoted Son,
William.
William managed to send 300 lbs.
of flour, seeds and some tea to his family, but immediately after
he did so, his account was stopped at the store. He wrote on May
4, 1866:
I get mad sometimes to think
that I don't get more wages so that I could help you. Since I
gott the flour order my account has been stopped by order of
S. Teasdel.
At this time William was desiring
to buy a lot in the 20th Ward, but his lack of means prevented
it. He lost his lodging with the Naisbett's and began boarding
with Brother Perkes, "A very nice family."
On his 19th birthday, William
wrote to his parents,
Nineteen years ago today you
first had the pleasure of beholding your oldest Son (William)
I am happy to inform you that he is well & enjoying good
health and hopes so to be for 4 times 19 years more to
come...I have enjoyed myself first rate this winter and would
more so if I had the means. I intend having a fine time
tomorrow evening for to inaugerate my twentieth year at the
fourteenth ward party. On the 11th inst. I had quite a
lengthy conversasion with Pres. Brigham Young at a party in
the Social hall. he was very inquisitive wanting to know how
I like this country, where my parents were, how they was
getting along &c&c. I answered to the best of my
ability.
William had a great gift for
writing; his penmanship was beautiful, his grammar and spelling
remarkably good. It was natural that his employment often had to
do with bookkeeping and writing. As the older brother, William
seemed to feel a responsibility to help his younger brothers and
sisters in this area. At times though, his encouragement almost
took on a spirit of chastisement.
Writing in September of 1865 he
said,
One word to Alma, every letter
I received he says "Excuse bad writing do better
next" but it seems to me the more you write the worse
you get such spelling I never see before. It makes me angry
to see that you should make so many blunders. I know that you
can't have much time but it would be just as easy to have the
dictionary by the side of you when are writing and look
therein for words that you could not spell if it was not for
it, in the last letter most every other word (& some of
the simplest kind ) was misspelt, which I shall be able to
show you if you come down.
The best thing you could do
would be every time you attemped to write, to have the
dictionary by you to pick out words that you could not spell
& copy somewhat after me or my letters. (I don't mean to
say that I am a good writer or a Perfect speller).
Alma must have heeded William's
words, because two years later William wrote to Alma and said,
...in penmanship and spelling
you are improving, but there is still room for more. Always
Sign your name at the End of your letters.
To his 12-year-old brother,
Moroni, William wrote on April 19, 1867,
It was with unabounded
pleasure that I perused your note...Allow me my Dear
Brother to congratulate you upon your success attending
your first attempt at corresponding, or rather letter
writing...Let me tell you that I resolved to answer it myself
if I never wrote another letter to encourage you on, to
proceed; continue on as you have made such an excellent
commencement...If I had the wisdom of President Young or the
eloquence of a "Burke" Durran, Cobden, Lord
Brougham, Bancroft, and others, I could not eulogize you too
highly for writing that note...
I would urge you Dear Moroni
to continue writing, take time, be sure you have every word
spelled correct, copy and Study my letters and write like
them until you can do better. Moroni, be a good boy, be good
and help your Father, Mother. Also be good and kind to your
Brothers and Sister, and you will live to be a good and great
man....
William also encouraged his
father, Isaac, to write and to be good at it. He wrote:
Before I forget it Father, I
must not omit to here notice the marked improvement in your
writing and especially in your spelling. I assure you Dear
Father that you have nothing to be ashamed of in your
correspondence, and it is hard to tell how much better you
would have been had you commenced earlier.
Two years later he wrote Isaac,
I really do feel happy in
being able to congratulate you on the marked improvement you
have made in your spelling. I only noticed a few misspelled
words out of them was "heney" for any and as far as
I am acquainted with my uncles handwriting you are the best
of them all.
Throughout his life, William would
continue to advise his family on different matters.
In May of 1866, Alma arrived in
Salt Lake City with the intent that perhaps William would be able
to help him get work. Alma arrived "very sore" after
being on the road for two weeks and three days, most of the way
bareback on a mule.
William did find Alma employment
with one of his friends, Dr. W. W. Sharp "Dentist." He
asked Dr. Sharp to try Alma for a month and "in that time he
could find out what he was worth." And so began Alma's
illustrious career in dentistry.
William was not so successful in
his own employment. In July of 1866 he was let go by Mr. Jennings
because of the debt that was owed. For a week he then worked for
a photographic artist but quit when he was refused pay. In August
he got work as agent and bookkeeper for the Southern Mail and
Express Line. In November he wrote, "The company for which I
was working managed to get rid of me for nothing more or less
than because I was Mormon." This company did give him a
"splendid character, stating that I have done more than I
said I could do and what I have done, I have done in a neat and
businefs like manner...."
He sums up what seems to be his
never ending bad luck.
It seems to be my lot to have
the ill luck not to be able to get a good steady suitable
situation. I suppose the Astrologers would say that I was
born under the wrong star or that I was born 5 minutes too
soon or too late. It comes very hard on me, no sooner do I
get into a situation and get my little debts liquidated than
I am thrown out into the cold again.
In March of 1867 he wrote that he
expected to be employed as assistant book keeper at the Daily
Telegraph Office. Apparently this never happened because on April
23 he wrote,
...I am still unemployed don't
know when I will get employment. Everything remains very
quiet. I scarsely know but what I will get crazy if I don't
get Employment soon my board bill amounts to about One
hundred dollars ($100.00). That alone is enough to make one
crazy. Will never be able to marry at that rate.
During this same time, Alma also
wrote to his parents and told them of the employment situation,
"I don't know what he [William] is going to do there is no
business. Merchants generally has more men employed than they
have nead for...."
William's mention of marrying is
evidently referring to Melvina Caroline Blanche Whitney, whom he
had mentioned only briefly up to that point in letters to his
parents. We know nothing of their meeting or their association.
Mellie, as she was called, was the daughter of Emmeline Wells and
Newell K. Whitney, a former presiding Bishop of the Church. Her
father died when she was very young, and her mother married
Daniel H. Wells, who at this time was a counselor to Brigham
Young in the First Presidency of the Church. Emmeline would later
become the fifth General President of the Relief Society, the
Church's organization for women.
At this time, William was called
to go on an "Indian Expedition to Sanpete" for six
months. He had enrolled as a "Cavalry Soldier Boy" the
previous fall. However, he wrote on April 23:
...their quota was filled
without me. They could not get a horse for me and
consequently I have to stay home which suits me very much....
Also during this time, on April
13, 1867, William received his endowments, which are sacred
ordinances and covenants performed in the temple. As the Salt
Lake Temple was then under construction, this took place in the
Endowment House..
In June he wrote, "Business
is improving slowly, not fast enough to require any assistance in
any of the several branches." In August he wrote that his
bills were getting paid, so evidently work had been found.
The next correspondence is dated
Feb. 17, 1868. Much had happened in the previous months.
According to the records of Lillie Dunford Mecham, William and
Melvina were married October 1, 1867 in Salt Lake City in the
Endowment House. Apparently William had not been in touch with
his parents since then, for in this letter he acknowledges that
...I ought to be laid across
your knees and have The "Star Spangled Banner"
imprinted on the nether extremity of my back-bone...for the
way in which I have neglected you...It was my intention to
have written to you in November and December and would have
done so had not Sam Teasdel of the Eagle Emporium kept me
busy all of my spare time and more to making Show Cards for
the Store....
He was working for William
Jennings again as a bookkeeper, but was let go due to problems
caused by Mr. Teasdel. Business in the whole area was slow:
...has been duller this winter
in this City than was ever known Since the year One So the
Merchants and Business Men Say. It is so dull That about 4 of
Them has closed up Their places of business on One block. I
have two or three offers for Some thing to do as soon as
Business opens, when that will be The Lord only knows for I
don't.
William then mentions taking
"my wife down to Provo by Stage to visit some of her
connections...."
Isaac's brother, George Dunford
was now living in Salt Lake City and was concerned about
William's continuous lack of employment. George and his sons had
a store but evidently didn't ever hire William. William wrote to
his parents:
...Uncle attempted to lecture
me about the misfortune and bad appearances of me being out
of Employment so often, pretending to talk to me as a father,
Still intimating all the time that I must have Stole or
Conducted myself in Some awful manner to be out of Employment
So often, in fact threw out such insinuations that my nature
and disposition could not stand and for that reason, I have
not been near there place since....
On June 5, 1868, William and
Melvina's first child was born, a daughter named Daisie Dean.
In October, William was employed
but uncertain as to how long it would last. Prices in the City
were expensive. William wrote asking his parents to send him 25
or 30 pounds of butter if possible. He would send them $5.00 and
pay the rest to whoever brought it down.
For the next year, Isaac and Leah
didn't hear from William. In a letter dated February 1, 1870, he
apologizes:
With feelings of regret at my
ungratefulness, I acknowledge the receipt of your very much
welcome favor of the 14th.
There are not words enough in
our language to enable me to frame an excuse, consequently, I
will not attempt the impossibility. To state my case, I will
say that, I have allowed myself to think that you were
allright without me writing, and that I have been too busy to
write to you, till I have procrastinated So long, that in the
remorse of my mind, I was totally and heartily ashamed of
myself, and could not muster courage enough to write. I will
however say that if I have not written often, I have thought
of you more so.
Since the time I last wrote to
you (which is nearly a year) I have been very busy...on the
29th of May last I was appointed clerk of the High Council,
on the 3rd of June I attended and took charge of the minutes
of a trial before the council. Since then I have taken down
the minutes of some 25 trials mostly cases of a private
nature. At the 3rd trial the President, George A., Daniel H.
Wells, Geo. Q Cannon, Wilford Woodruff and others were
present. On this occasion I read over the minutes of my
former cases to be accepted by the Council. While reading
them Prest Young and the Council gave me great praise and
stated that they were the best minutes the council had had
since E.L. Sloan kept them.
This was when I was alone in
the world, and I can assure that it gave me great
satisfaction to know that my endeavors were appreciated by
someone, especially when Prest.______ Young told me that his
father said he was pleased to see that they had me Clerk of
the High Council and told ______ that I was a good boy and
was trying to do right. It makes one feel much better to know
when he hears himself thus spoken of that it is not flattery.
On the 30th of June I got out
a balance sheet of Young and Thatcher's business (the first
that ever I did) which gave great satisfaction to my
employers, only having made but one mistake in a business
where I had handled over a half of a million dollars in money
and figures.
...I was engaged by bro _____
to take charge of his private books when I got through with
Young and Thatchers. Well since the 30th of June I have been
employed on bro ____ books, and the High Council books
&c.&c.
Sometime in Sept.(I think) I
had an attack of the Typhoid Fever which kept me from my
business some 3 or 4 days. With that one exception I have
been blest with Excellent health, and as a family we have
been most remarkabley blest with good health, the wife having
enjoyed good health and our little daughter Daisey has not
known sickness, for which I can assure you I feel truly
thankful to the Giver of all our blessings.
At this time in the history of the
Church, a group of prominent members were brought before the high
council of the Salt Lake Stake and excommunicated for apostasy,
among them William S. Godbe and Elias L.T. Harrison. In this
letter William told his parents about this trial for which he may
have taken the minutes.
The main hall of the city hall
was crowded to its utmost capacity, including the Presidency,
a number of the Twelve, and a number of the Bishops. The
trial was quite exciting and long, lasting nearly all day.
The minutes of the trial filled 63 pages of Foolscap paper.
...On the 10 inst. we had the
Largest Celebration that Utah ever witnessed in the
"Laying of the last Rail and driving the last
spike." ..The wife & I enjoyed ourselves very much
at the Celebration Balls given in the Theatre. It was a
glorious sight to witness 25 or 30 set of Dancers whirling
around in a giddy maze....
...As you notice by the Paper
we had another addition to our family in the shape of a very
fine daughter on Saturday Dec 11th at twenty five minutes
past eight in the evening. It weighed eight and one half
pounds....We have not named our Baby yet, it is so fine that
I cannot find a name that good enough for her....
This baby girl was Verona.
That spring William and Melvina
and their girls visited in Bloomington. William returned with
Alma, leaving his family there. This is the account of their
harrowing trip:
After considerable toil and
some hair breathed escapes we arrived here [Franklin] last
night at 1/2 past 7 O clock....We had good roads till we
commenced to descend the Devide. We got too far north which
made a terrible time for us. The snow that fell the day
before we left was from four to six inches deep and that had
drifted much deeper in some places and where we decended the
Mountain was almost perpendicular. We had to scale the side
of the Mount, digging a place in the Snow with our feet
before we could get a footing, going 50 ft. to decend 10 ft
or less and in some places where the new snow had drifted off
the old and hard snow, we came very nigh slipping and sliding
to Heaven or H--ll.
In fact we came so near it
twice that we did slip. I kept ahead all the time picking out
what I thought the best road for quite a distance we decended
at an angle of about 70 or 85 degrees, and at one of the
steepest places, my foot Slipped and I was hurled at the rate
of 1 1/2 miles an hour down the Embankment of snow for about
25 or 30 ft but the time had not yet come for me to go hence,
a providencial twig of Pine was in the way and I was
preserved instead of being killed. We had not got much
farther when Alma Slipped and away he went for a few feet, he
like myself was fortunate Enough to grasp a twig and thereby
preserved his life. When we got about 1/6 of the way down we
built a fire, Eat a little grub and waited until the Sun and
wind desolved the Snow So that we would not Slide so. after
that we came down allright but not before we were tired out,
bruised up, and Scared nigh unto death...
We are going to try and walk
to Logan today where we will most likely wait for a team to
take us to Brigham City for our feet are so blistered and
Sore that we cannot walk much farther right away....
With the exceptions of what
this contradicts, we are well.
|
Alma added a postscript to this
account, "certify[ing] that the above is correct."
In June of 1870, William sent two
horses, a harness and wagon that he had bought up to his father
to "Do as you please with them till I can decide what to
do...I think you can do your Summer work with them."
A month later William himself went
to Bloomington. While there, he received a letter from Mellie,
the only correspondence of hers that is available. It gives some
wonderful insight into their relationship and the love that once
was there. July 29, 1870:
You know Willie it is so long
since we have written each other any love letters. I feel as
though I wanted to write a genuine one. I have had such
gloomy thoughts about you since you went away this time. I
never felt so before in my life so it is not because you are
away from me.
I pray every night &
morning to the Lord, to keep you from every evil &
espescially from the tempation to drink strong drink. Yes, I
pray as hard as I can and Daisie says "Amen," every
time. She goes & calls you every time a meal is ready
& when I tell her you are gone to Bear Lake, She Say
"Papa gone to Bear Lake to get Daisie horses & cows
& calves & shoes & slippers & chickies,"
& I can't tell you all she does say you are gone to get
her. She took hold of your cards the other day & said
"dear papa's cards. Papa find em when he comes."
Then she said "papa gone away off in the carriage. poor
papa." I don't think she will forget you as she did when
I was up in Bear Lake.
William I want you to come
home, I have felt awful ever since you went away. Do come
home, do, my darling husband, for such you are,
& although I say things sometimes that make you feel to hate
me still I do really & truly love you and I cannot
begin to tell you how miserable I am without you here with
me.
I expect that Eliza think I am
mean not to send her a shuttle. Tell her I'll bring
one to her & teach her how to tat myself. Give my love to
all the folks kiss little Leah for me & tell Alma I think
he might write to a poor lone "widder" like myself
if he intends staying up there much longer. My own Willie, I
see how hard it is to get along without you & I want you
home do come....
When he returned to Salt Lake, the
employment situation was not good, and in September they moved in
with Mellie's mother. William's intention was to go to Bear Lake
and secure the "Hopkin's Place." With Moroni's help he
would move his family there and "come home for good."
In preparation for the move he had been trying to collect on
debts owed him so that he could pay his creditors.
Affairs were settled and they
spent the winter of 1870-71 in Bloomington. Why they didn't stay
there longer is unclear, but in the spring of the year they
returned to the City.
Salt Lake City had grown
considerably since they had been gone and with it the chance for
employment. William wrote,
I have not done anything yet,
there is a good demand for cards at present. I think I can
get a steady job at Walker Bro's but I want to look around a
little more yet, in fact I have not made up my mind what I
shall do yet.
But it appears that instead of
life improving, it started to get worse for William. Feeling
deserted by friends, he wrote his parents, "Write often as I
never wanted to see or hear from you so bad in my life...How I
could write if I had the time." The next day, June 8, he
again wrote them, this time telling them of problems he and
Mellie were having.
Not long after this, word was
received that William's 11-year-old sister Eliza had died
suddenly on June 18 of typhoid fever. He and Alma left
immediately for Bloomington and stayed until a few days after the
funeral.
Upon his return, William found his
marital affairs no better and he moved out of the house to live
with Alma at Mr. Sharp's. In his letters home he told of seeing
Mellie several times on the arm of another man and the great hurt
and anger he felt. In counseling with President Daniel H. Wells
(who was not only a counselor to Brigham Young but also Mellie's
stepfather) he said,
...I loved her and love my
Dear Children, told him that I married her out of pure
love...that I loved her 2 or 3 years before I knew her, and
that if she was to instigate my death I think I could not
help but love her....
Apparently William knew the kind
of talk that was going around about him. He asked President
Wells:
... if anyone had spoken a
word in my favor to him. I said no, but you have had a dozen
to speak evil of me to you. I have not a single champion when
She has numbers, why is it, said I because She, my respected
Mother-in-law & others will tell anybody & everybody
that will listen to them, more about me than I know about
myself, while I have not told anyone 1/2 of what I might, not
even my parents. And furthermore I don't intend to. I said if
reports were true (or had the least shadow of truth in them)
that are going around about me I should be ashamed to walk
the streets or look an honest person in the face, but said I,
I don't feel myself Such a great criminal...or unworthy of
your favor or council or that of Prest. Young....
He [President Wells] said he
was not going to do anything more in the matter, that he had
tried two or three times to have us live happily together,
but with such poor Success that he was going to let some one
else try to see what they could do now. I told him that it
was my intention to also lay the whole matter before the
President [Young] in accordance with my fathers last wish...I
realize that time will streighten out my little affairs
Satisfactorily. I consult with my Lawyer (The Lord) quite
frequently and I am Satisfied that so long as it remains in
his hands it will be all right....
Within the next month, William had
gone into business with a Mr. L. P. Martin. Their circular read,
...we are now prepared to do
Law Copying and Writing of all kinds. Mining Papers drawn up
inregular form. Books kept, Opened and Closed. Collections
made and all kinds of Grain Sold on Commission. Soliciting
your business and patronage, and assuring you entire
satisfaction.
William was very optimistic that
at last he had found work that would be profitable. He wrote,
...We get splendid verbal
encouragement from all of the Lawyers & others. They
(Some of the Lawyers) are endeavoring to secure me the
appointment of "Notary Public," if they can't do it
before Legislature they will do it then, then I cannot help
but make some little money.
To make ends meet, he wanted to
sell his team and his "20th Ward lot." He said that he
was going to build as soon as possible. He also asked Isaac to
sell everything of his that was in Bloomington except his
"little trinkets" and his land.
William's optimism was
short-lived. Two months later on October 13, 1871 he wrote,
...The fact of the matter is I
have not made enough to live decently since I opened my
office. I would have closed it up long ago, had I not been
advised by those that ought to know that I would make a good
deal of money by sticking. I have been for 2 days at a time
& eat nothing but 1/2 lb crackers & 1/4 lb Cheese
& have even went in debt for that. So you See that I have
not been able to do as I would like to do by you. I hope it
won't be long before I can do Something for you.
I have been trying lately to
get some Steady Employment, without Success. I learned
yesterday that I could get the position of Book Keeper for
the "Tribune" but I do not want to go there if I
can help it, but I am almost beginning to think that I will
take it 'till I can do better, that is if I am not too late.
The Tribune was the
newspaper of the Liberal Party and was very anti-Mormon and
vicious in its attacks on the Church. In previous letters,
William told how he despised it and those who ran it. That he was
even considering working there shows that he must have been
desperate.
There was one bright spot in
William's life at this time. He and Mellie were reconciling.
I concluded at her earnest
Solicitatious to forgive her providing that she would go to
Prest Wells and acknowledge that She had done me a gross
injustice, which She did. Consequently, I visited her pretty
steady Since then.
Alma later wrote his parents and
reported, "William has went to house keeping agin. It was on
Dec. 28th [1871] and they seem to get along as happy as
doves."
William worked for the Tribune for
a while but quit and was now only doing his show cards
...& I assure you that
they with all the Exertion imaginable affords us as very
Scanty living, but I look ahead to much better times very
soon.
He described his card business.
Just what show cards were is unclear, perhaps a sort of
advertisement card:
The way I do I make up a large
number of cards & then go around & peddle them, if I
can't get 40 cents for a card I take 30 if not 30 I take 20
& so on. I sell a card that I used to get 75 cents for,
25 cents now.
William and his brothers and
sisters were close and the love and concern they showed each
other is evident through their writings and their actions. It was
at this time that Alma was ready to start his own dental
practice. William was there to help him. He mortgaged his two
lots for $400.00 and gave Alma the money to buy the tools and
implements he needed to "make a tour South & if
successful come back and establish himself permanently in
business...I am confident that Alma will be very
successful."
William took $75.00 of the money
and bought some furniture and rented two rooms into which he
moved his newly reunited family.
On May 6, 1872, Alma wrote his
parents from Fillmore and said, "...today I picked up a
paper and there I learn'd that there was an addition to William's
family of a Son. Long may he wave and happy may the boy be."
This son was born on April 30 and was named Leslie Alma.
Again William was faced with
unemployment and hard times. Returning from a visit to
Bloomington in the summer of 1872 he found all the work places
...satisfactorilly filled, and
as Business is very dull I don't know what I shall do. I have
spent what little money I brought down and I find out that
there are no Show Cards wanted.
And I also find out that we
are wanting Some flour, Sugar, Tea Butter
&c.&c.&c.&c. and have not got the where with
to get them.
He asked Isaac to send them some
butter and to ask "Mrs. Jarvis that if it is convenient I
would as leif have her send me some eggs as I would to have her
send me the money [she owes]."
In September he found work as a
bookkeeper for some stage proprietors. On September 10 he wrote,
How Strange fortunes wheel
does roll betimes, here a couple of week ago I could scarcely
get enough to do to keep body & soul together, and the
very day I commenced her I got orders for 6 cards, amounting
to about so many dollars, and I have had more work offered me
since then...The fair opens about the 1st October and there
is no doubt if I was a machine that I could make loads of
money, for already I am getting orders for Show cards for
it....
William was concerned about the
health of his children. Both Daisie and Verona or
"Onie" as he called her had been ill and Daisie
"fell down & cut a big gash to the bone over her left
eyebrow...it will leave a scar so that She can be known all the
days of her life. I am thankful it was no worse."
In the next few months, William
and Mellie's marriage deteriorated to the point that they sought
and were granted a divorce. What the causes were are not known.
However their very unstable finances beginning from the time of
their marriage had to have been a terrible strain. Their
backgrounds were very different, Mellie's parents being very
well-to-do and prominent both in Society and the Church. From his
letters, one can tell that William felt that he was looked down
upon. The fact that he could not provide adequately for his
family must have been a trial not only for him, but also for
Mellie and her family. Isaac and Leah were also very concerned.
From letters and also the diary of Mellie's mother, Emmeline B.
Wells, we know that William was at times a heavy drinker and
smoker. Circumstances did not ever seem to change much and the
outcome was divorce.
According to William, the divorce
settlement was
That Mrs. Wm. Dunford have all
the household goods excepting my trunks (which She
accordingly has) My 2 lots on the hill and $50.00 per month
the first of every month from the first of December, for 12
months making $600.00. Said to be a most extraordinary
decision and much more than I have.
It cost me nothing to get
married, but it has cost me with loss of property, situation,
and racking of mind over $5000.00 to get unmarried....
Again, William was without work.
He wrote the following on December 10, 1872:
...except for making a few
Show cards, earning about my local expenses. Consequently
please send me by registered letter the $20.00 that Moroni
owes me and what money you have collected for me [from
debtors] as I need it to finish furnishing my room and paying
some few debts. Please send it immediately.
There are no letters from William
for the next several months. During this time, 17-year-old Moroni
was in Salt Lake City working. He reported on his oldest brother
to his concerned parents.
February 13, 1873
Dear Father, you spoke in
your letter about William. never mind. Dear Pa, he will
see where he is in the rong, yes rong some day.
March 28
You wish to know how Our
Brother William is geting a long. he is Stoping at
William Morras. he as A good place to board, and A good
place to sleep. Mostley he do is painting Cards. he was
keeping books for the co op Store for A while. is Old
folks are well, he goes A round there Once in a while to
see is babies...as near as I can learn his afers is as
they always is. I call it up Side down but I think it
might be riten Some day....
William spent about a month
[April-May] of 1873 in Soda Springs, Idaho, living with some
friends and painting signs for the various businesses. However,
it did not provide much more than living expenses. Therefore, he
wrote and asked Isaac to sell his cattle as he was "in need
of money."
A year later, William seemed to be
doing better. He wrote that he had been able to live more
comfortably during the past winter, fixing up his room "in
fine style." He was still making and selling his cards. He
contributed his well-being to a "temperate & virtuous
life, substantial living & little work and the happy faculty
of keeping a contented mind is the sole cause consequently I am
comparitively happy, would be more so if I had more money
maybe."
In April, Mellie contacted him and
said he could take the children as she was having a hard time
supporting herself. William tried to find a suitable place for
him and his children to live. He was concerned about his children
and wrote that "They all had the Scarlet fever last winter,
& have all since then been sick. I have always bought them
medicine, NicKnacks &c&c&c which has cost me no
little money...." He felt that Mellie had been neglectful of
them.
Apparently the children did not
come to live with William, for on June 2 he wrote and informed
his parents that he had been to Mrs. Wells' home and had seen
them. He also reported that Mellie was suing him for his two lots
and $600.00 in cash. Considering the poor financial situation he
had been in, it appears that he had not kept the divorce
agreement. He wrote,
In talking to her [Mellie]
this A.M. I thought she was making up her mind to accept my
reasonable offer. But Still she thought she ought to have
more than 1/2 of the property. I can help but acknowledge it
does worry me....So you see my Star can't Shine for a moment
without a cloud coming up to cut me off from the light....
William expected there to be
"considerable law" over the matter and wanted to convey
his land in Bloomington over to Alma so that Mellie wouldn't be
able to get it along with his property in Salt Lake City.
Before the court date, William
again tried to get Mellie to agree to giving her half of what he
had, but she refused. In talking to a Judge Hoge and a Mr. George
Groo, he was told:
I would be a fool to deed her
all my property & give her out years earnings besides,
but from the way they were working it, If I did not do it
they would very likely arrest me & throw me in prison for
contempt of court....
Judge Smith at the hearing refused
to grant Mellie's attorney's motion to compel William to comply
with their demands and said that a compromise would be made. Just
what that was William did not say. He wrote, "So it remains
as before. That little bit of fun is going to cost me
$150.00."
William's luck continued to go
downhill, and he found himself being sued by "that tailor
(that I had befriended) that coaxed me to let him make me a suit
of clothes & Said he would wait on me till I could pay
him...I paid him $25.00 before he cut the cloth. I only owed him
$15.00." The tailor came to William's new place of
employment, Walker Brothers Bankers and demanded payment. William
told him it would not be long. Knowing that the employees were
able to draw money from their wages every Friday, the tailor left
a note for William "Wherein he actually demanded that I
should pay him $5.00 that evening & $5.00 each Succeeding
friday or he would take legal proceedings." When the tailor
came the next morning to get his money, William told him
...if he had not insulted me I
had fully made up my mind to give him $5.00 last night, but
instead of giving it to him I had bought my children Some
Shoes. However he Sued me & what they have done about it
I don't know nor care.
This is a world of trouble,
Sin, & Sorrow Sickness & death &c.
It is obvious that William's
outlook on life is anything but optimistic.
In November the final settlement
of the divorce was made and William deeded Mellie "the south
1/2 of those two lots...& was to give her, her choice of the
Stock viz: the 2 best cows or the worst Cow & the Steers but
as nothing has been Said about it Since I will not give her any
Stock."
The relationship between Mellie
and William was, and continued to remain, bitter. All that is
available about their affairs is from William's point of view. It
is sure that Mellie saw things differently. Emmeline B. Wells,
Mellie's mother, wrote in her diary of the heartache that this
marriage caused. Almost every year on its anniversary, she
mentioned it. On October 1, 1888 she wrote, "Mell was
married 21 years ago today to W. D. Such a sorrowful event to
look back upon & yet when it transpired we thought it a grand
affair..."
On September 30, 1895 she
recorded,
Tomorrow is an anniversary of
great moment to me Mell's marriage to Wm Dunford in 1867 at
17 year of age. We were happy then comparatively but what
sorrow it brought us. He is dead-alas, and two beautiful
girls from that marriage are now grown to womanhood. How can
we account for the vicissitudes of life.
It is not the purpose of this
history to lay blame or to judge. It is sad, however, that
such a tragedy had to occur in their lives, for it affected
them and their families greatly.
On November 7, 1874, Mellie
married William Wells Woods, the second son of Mayor Daniel H.
Wells' sister. He was not a member of the Mormon Church so they
were married by a Catholic Priest. According to William, Mellie
had turned against the Church.
William wrote that the day before
Mellie was married,
Daisie came up with an order
from her mother for Some things, Shoes, Stockings, Coats,
Ribbon &c. which I bought...One would have thought that
she would not have had the courage to ask such favors the day
before her marrying with another man....
Since that time both Daisie and
Onie [Verona] had come to William in need of things. William
wrote that "they are neglected & needing winter clothing
very bad."
William had decided to completely
sell his holdings in Bloomington, "the house, Stable, the
two lots...hay land, the 15 or 20 acres got of Hart & the 10
acres in south field...I wish to gracious the animals were
Sold." He asked Isaac to help him do this.
It was sometime during the next
year that Moroni traded William for the old house and the two
lots that bordered Isaac's lot. Moroni gave him his horse,
"Noble", and $50.00 in cash. Moroni would later build
one of the most beautiful homes in the Bear Lake Valley on these
lots. He also bought the rest of William's land.
Moroni wrote about his horse,
"Noble", and how wild he was. (Please refer to Moroni's
history written in this book.) William's description of the
animal is somewhat different. Apparently, someone had been taking
care of the horse for William since he had acquired him. On
August 6, 1875 William wrote:
Tell Moroni that I took a ride
this evening on "Noble" & I did not think it
possible for a horse to change so in 2 short weeks, why he is
like some old used up cow, after you get on him you have to
club him to get him started...before he was too Spirted now
he is much too tame, & he appeared to be starved to
death. I am afraid Bee did not treat him as well as he might.
I have got him in a good stable where he gets good feed &
attention at least he ought to I am paying a dollar a day for
it & hope in the course of a couple of weeks to be able
to ride him without using myself up clubbing him....
Daisie was now seven years old and
spent part of the summer in Bloomington with her grandparents. In
the following years, both she and Verona spent time in the
summers there and enjoyed being on the farm. Their Aunt Leah was
approximately the same age, so it is certain they had good times
together. William wrote, "Daisie did want to visit you again
this summer & so did Onie..."
On September 27, 1875 William sent
the following letter to Daisie in Bloomington:
My own dear darling daughter,
I was happy to learn by letter
from Grandpa last evening that you was well and happy, but
anxious to come home to see Mama, Papa, Onie and Leslie. I
don't wonder at my darling being a wee bit homesick. I rather
expected you would be before now it being the first time you
have been away so long.
I have thought of you so often
since I left and the very happy time that I had with you, so
much so that I have wished that business would permit me to
make you another visit. I am so glad that you have enjoyed
yourself so much and to learn (Know) that you love your
little Auntie so much.
How I do wish my daughter
could write to tell me herself what good times she has and
how her little calf is that Papa gave her, what fun she has
getting up the calves, how she likes sheep herding, milking,
gathering eggs, feeding the pigs &c, and whether her
uncles took her to the hay and harvest fields, whether she
can ride horseback all alone or not, what kind of a doll she
would like to have me send, and dishes, or whatever she
wanted, and, and, and above all how much she loves her Pa.
Grandpa tells me he hopes to
bring you down here by the fore part of next week. O how glad
I shall be to see you.
Papa has moved from where I
was living when you went away to such nice rooms where you
must come to see him often.
I hope you have been a good
girl, grown fat and hearty, while you have been away, been
kind to your little Auntie and Uncles, and loved your dear
Grandma and Grandpa.
Good bye
Pet,
Your Affectionate, Pa
It is evident that William had a
great love for his children and was proud of them. In writing
about Daisie he said, "Bless her heart she is as smart a
child as any I ever knew. She talks with her actions & even
with her very eyes...."
At last it seemed that William
found permanent employment. His continued work at Walker
Brothers, which had expanded to become an import business and
also a dry goods, grocery, and clothing store, had been
successful. For the first time in many years, he was doing well
financially. For Christmas [1875] he was able to buy his children
1 Blk Walnut Bedroom Set
furniture, for Doll, very pretty, she [Daisie] said she would
like one ever so much so of course I have to please them once
in awhile, Stove & Doll carriage &c for Onie, 1 pr
fancy Boots, Wagon &c for Leslie.
He also bought some children's
furs for the girls.
Problems with Mellie continued. In
May of 1876, she asked William to provide money for the
children's schooling at St. Mary's Academy and also for their
clothing and other needs. He told his parents that she had said
that
Mr. Woods [their stepfather]
had been very kind to them but it was too much to expect him
to provide entirely for them that when he married her he did
not expect to have to keep them...I asked if the children had
ever asked me for anything that I did not get for them...I
have spent as much as $30.00 a month for them....
The idea of being
"compelled" to do more for the children was upsetting
to William.
My wife leaves my bed &
board, gets a divorce, try to rob me of everything, abuses
& vilifies me, stands by and sees me draged off to prison
when a word from her would prevent it, gets the decree in
divorce to read that I shall have no power or control over my
children, came very near getting a Justice to prevent me from
seeing them, Marrys again (a "lawyer") calls on me
through others to dress the children up for the ceremony, has
called on me ever since, now wants me to give (I guess) 1/2
of what I earn per month to keep them...What I do for the
children I will do volentarilly as I have always done &
not because I think I am compelled to...My children shall not
suffer if I can prevent it.
Just as he is concerned for his
children, William is also anxious about his parents and brothers
and sister. His letter home on December 12, 1876, offered some
brotherly advice:
What a joyous time it will be
for poor Mother and fact for you all when you move into your
new house. In the mean time tell "the boys" my
brothers to be kind to dear mother and one another and try to
make life as cheerful as possible while you live in the old
house & forever after, tell them if I should die before
they hear from me again that that is my dieing request.
What makes me write this way
is some remarks my daughter Daisie made to me yesterday. She
called on me to get some presents for Onie as it was her
birthday...After getting her the presents...I told her to be
good and kind to dear Sister, brother, Mama, &c. She
says,'I do try to be.' She said her Ma told her how good
& kind I used to be to my Ma by washing dishes Scrubbing
like a girl &c and she wanted to be like me.
I really had to laugh she was
so cunning, but my laughing was soon turned to Sorrow, when
she told me how sorry She was (once when she was up there)
Grandma [Leah] asked_________one of my brothers to feed the
pigs. She said he spoke very cross to Grandma and told her to
do it herself. She said it made her feel very sorry for
Grandma, & I am sure it made me. I won't fill up that
blank with his name as I am sure if he has not been worry for
it yet, he will be someday even as I regret many, many things
of the past. But have no more regrets, boys for the past and
try not to have anything to regret in the future and you will
all be so much more happy, and won't be in any hurry to go to
heaven. You will have one with you in your heart if no where
else.
William then gave some advice to
his father on the building of their new home.
Let me suggest, that you build
your house so that can add to it without destroying the
beauty of it, remembering that it takes but very little more
material to make your rooms larger, lofty and comfortable
don't cost but very little more and are much more convenient
than small cooped up rooms...and above all, build so that you
can add on in future and still have a good looking house.
In other letters William made the
same suggestions. Isaac must have listened to him for the home
that was built was indeed spacious and beautiful and was later
remodeled.
William's steady and seemingly
successful employment allowed him to do more for his parents. For
at least the Christmases of 1876 and 1877 he sent a
"Christmas Box" to Bloomington. In it he sent the
makings for a "regular hold hinglish puddin" plus much
more food.
I intend that you shall have
at least one good meal on Christ's natal day, tell mother not
to stint the children in anything, eat, drink and be merry,
cook and open up everything and let all eat to their hearts
content, in fact have as I wish you most heartily a Merry
Christmas and a happy New Year.
The next February [1878], William
sent another package, this one filled with fresh oysters and
oranges. He intended it to be a "rich treat."
Unfortunately it never reached its destination which was very
frustrating to him. "It is not the value of goods so much as
the disappointment..." he wrote.
That February of 1878 is the first
mention of the terrible headaches that would plague him the rest
of his life. He sends a picture of himself taken just before he
"shaved his whiskers off" stating that he thinks it is
a good picture "considering that my head was aching
fearfully, something that troubles me quite frequently lately. I
have had one all day today, not any fool headaches either, the
kind that make a fellow forget his father, Mother, & family
almost & nearly make him blind."
A month later he wrote,
I suffer considerably this
year with the Headache. I used to think last year that it was
on account of drinking beer but I suffer more since I quit. I
have a wager with Brownlee of $100.00 that I won't drink till
1st next year.
William won that bet and the
$100.00.
The headaches continued into the
fall. "My head has been paining me So. I am afraid it will
shortly become chronic with me, if it should I would rather
die...." Years later in 1884 he wrote to his brother,
Oliver, about the "beastly headache...I have been nearly
crazy for about a week...." He never mentioned seeking
medical help, but tried to suffer through them. It was just
another trial in his life.
As is evident in his letters,
William told things just the way he saw them. His personality was
strong and it is doubtful very many people ever got the best
of him (to his way of thinking). He probably even shocked his
parents by the views and attitudes he sometimes had. In one
letter he wrote,
I wish I could see you to have
a good long talk, but I am afraid you would order me out of
the house I would tell such straight truth.
William never married again, but
continued to have a close relationship with his children. He
mentioned his daughters in particular. They spent Christmas of
1879 with him in his room "which was the best time I
had...." He wrote,
My little children are all
well, and are getting more and more attached to me. Onie came
down to my room last Sunday & stayed a couple of hours.
She says she does love me so. Daisie is a perfect little
lady. She is getting quite a large girl & very smart
& sensible. I walk along the streets one on each side of
me taking hold of my arm. I presume they make me look much
older than I appear, folks won't believe they are my
children....
It is unclear why his son, Leslie
is not mentioned. From Emmeline's diary we learn that William's
children may have been living with her. She wrote, "...I had
the care of him [Leslie] more than any one of the children who
were at home with me even more than Verona."
In October of 1879, word was
received of Isaac's tragic death, and William, along with Alma
and Moroni, hurried to Bloomington. Their sorrow was great.
Alma's and William's return trip was made walking through snow
for three or four miles and then "trudging on through slush
and mud" another six miles before they could get a ride.
William's correspondence stops
with Isaac's death, except for two letters written to Oliver, one
from Hawaii in 1884 and one from Salt Lake City in 1888. Because
Leah could not read or write, he probably sent his letters to his
brothers and sister to share with her.
In William's remaining letters,
little can be learned about the rest of his life. His son, Leslie
Alma, died in 1882. His death was a great sadness to his
Grandmother Wells. Almost every year afterwards on his birthday,
she would comment in her diary about this tragic loss.
At the time he [Leslie] died,
Emmeline was the editor of the Woman's Exponent,
the precursor to the Relief Society Magazine. In the
August 1, 1882 edition, she wrote the following under the title
"A Sad Event":
Died in Salt Lake City, at the
residence of Major W. W. Woods at five minutes to five Sunday
afternoon, July 23, 1882, Leslie Alma Dunford, aged 10 years,
2 months, and 23 days. Deceased was the son of Mrs. Woods by
a former marriage...He was a bright, active and interesting
boy, manly in his bearing and most tender and affectionate in
his disposition. He was spiritual in his nature, loved to
hear of heaven and the Savior, and was fondly attached to his
relatives, to whom he was ever obedient, respectful and
obliging, ready to render any little service in his power.
His death was the result of an
accident with a toy pistol, with which he was slightly
wounded in the hand on the 4th of July last. The most careful
attention was given to the wound, which appeared to be doing
well, and he showed no symptoms of the terrible affliction
until about twelve days after the accident, when he was
attacked with lockjaw and paralysis. The little fellow
suffered inexpressible agony day and night for a week. He was
brave, patient and uncomplaining, never murmuring even in the
most extreme pain. His mother was constantly at his bedside,
watchful and hopeful until a short time before his death. The
shock was a severe one to her and to his little sisters, and
to all his relatives, for he was tenderly beloved....
William spent one winter with his
brothers in Bloomington. It evidently was a memorable one for
them, as he wrote to Oliver dated February 29, 1884 from
Honolulu, Hawaii:
I am sorry that I cannot
revert to that winter with pleasure. My greatest and almost
only thought and desire, on the road up and while there was
for the improvement, advancement and prosperity of my
brothers, and I will say that even with the then condition of
my eyes, it was a great opportunity for them, greater than
they will ever have again, anyway a chance that ought to have
been seized with avidity, instead of the cause of heaping me
with such outrageious abuse, making me wish frequently I had
never gone near them.
I could have given them
more useful & pointed instruction in six months than they
could get in six years at almost any school, because very few
of all the teachers have the practical experience that I had.
Consequently I could in a short time have given plain
instructions unencumbered by unnecessary words, rules
problems or theories, that will take years of study to gather
in the ordinary way.
I have had some woeful seasons
in my short life, but that winter was the most miserable I
ever spent and if I mistake not the principal cause of it
will seriously regret it some day if he has not already, and
probably some of the minor causes too. Yet I am thankful for
having created an impression on you [Oliver], one fifth of
the whole whole that I had hoped to impress....
As disappointed as he was at this
point with his other brothers, William was very proud of Oliver.
He praised him, saying that the letter he had just received
confirmed,
the opinion I had of you and
your abilities for years and as I told you more than once,
that you can-if you will-be something
more than a dull Stupid "clodhopper" scarcely known
in the little community in which you live, in fact you can be
almost anything you wish, within reason, if you will strive
for it. Put your mind on a mark as high and honorable as your
judgment now prompts and then climb to it....
At age 37,William seemed to have
regrets for his past and the road his life followed. To Oliver he
said,
...O if I could only be put
back to your age with a tithe of the understanding I have
now, or the advantage of experienced elder brothers, I would
make a name, fame and a reputation that could not be confined
within the boundaries of a small city. But as it cannot now
be, I will be able to make partial amends & receive great
joy by helping you to do so...I really admire the tone of
your letter, especially where you say "Of course I am
bound to be somebody." If you keep thinking so, you will
be, and no one can prevent you....
William's brotherly concerns
continued, and in a letter to Oliver dated September 29, 1888
from Salt Lake City, he wrote,
By the way, ain't there no
girls up there that Parley can marry, tell him I want him to
look out a good girl and marry her. and you too, old boy, its
about time you know...How is our Sister on that Score any
way. I think its about time She was getting hold of some
healthy, fine Strapping, noble fellow. Eh! Sister.
I got a letter from Moroni [in
Georgia on his mission]...I hope he will select a good girl
there (if he could not at his home) convert her to the faith,
baptise her, and bring her home and marry her, or marry her
and then bring her home. Jimmie & family are all right I
hope....
In this final letter, it seems as
though William was again going through the cycle his life
continually followed. He asked Oliver to get the deed and some
papers to his land in Soda Springs. He had had trouble over it
for the previous three years. "I have only had about two
weeks work this year. That and other causes is the reason why
Spence Rich, & Co. have & are fooling and trifling with
me so, I expect...."
William then summed up his affairs
at this time. It could be the summation of most of his life:
"I have a hard matter to live now and it seems, and has
seemed for 6 or 7 years a confounded, hard, cold world to get
along in, yet I have good health and have got to stay in this
life...."
As before, William also showed
concern for his mother, Leah:
God bless our Dear Mother and
make her life cheerful and pleasant. I know that you boys
that are home can and do realize Mothers age and try to make
every hour happy and delightful for her.
Three years later on October 17,
1891, William died. The only account of his death is in Oliver's
Autobiography and states briefly, "He [William] passed
suddenly away at the age of about 44 years." He was interred
in the Salt Lake City cemetery but later moved to the Bloomington
cemetery where he lies next to his sister, Eliza.
William Dunford's life was short
and in terms of worldly gain and favor, perhaps uneventful. But
he demonstrated the power and ability to get by in a world that
was not always kind. He was on his own from age 17, living in an
ever-growing and changing city, far from his family. His
perseverance to keep trying and to look forward to a better time
that often did not come is remarkable. William desired the best
from himself and from others. His dreams and hopes were high.
As for William's children, Verona,
Daisie and Leslie, Emmeline B. Wells, their grandmother,
mentioned them often in her diaries. They spent much time in her
home and it is evident they shared a great love. As teen-agers
and as adults, the girls spent extended periods of time with
their Grandmother Wells.
Verona married Barry Nugent
Hillard April 30, 1889. After his death in 1904, she married
Charles W. Betts. Daisie married Henry Richmond Allen December
12, 1892.
Melvina and her husband, William
Wells Woods, had two children, Winnafred Isabelle and Percival,
both of whom died as children. In 1888 or 1889 they moved to
Couer d'Alene, Idaho where Mr. Woods practiced law and later
became the judge of the Shoshone District Court. He died November
10, 1920. Melvina moved to Sierra Madre, California where Daisie
was living. Affectionately known as "Mama Woods" to her
grandchildren, she was much loved. She died there at the age of
89 on April 20, 1940 and was buried in the Salt Lake City
Cemetery.
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